In the midst of chaos

you may find unexpected kindness

Equality at last

The following is from the The News Tribune, Tacoma WA

54 YEARS LATER …
John McCluskey knows the exact date when he met his partner, Rudy Henry: Dec. 31, 1958.

Now, almost 54 years after that New Year’s Eve party in San Francisco, the pair soon will be able to get legally married.

It has been a long time coming for the Tacoma couple.

"I would have wanted to get married by the end of 1959," said McCluskey, 76, as he reflected on what life would have been like had same-sex marriage been legal in those days. But, “after we had been together 35 or 40 years we pretty much felt married."

McCluskey and Henry, 78, will get married Dec. 15, but they don’t know any of the details. The wedding for the couple, well-known and much respected in the gay, bisexual, lesbian, transgender community, is being put on by volunteers within that community.

Henry is recovering from a stroke and complications after a surgery and requires almost full-time care from McCluskey and others.

McCluskey is looking forward to no longer having to show his domestic partnership card to doctors and nurses and other health care providers when he takes Henry to a medical appointment.

"Almost without exception, we’ve had to explain what that means," he said

Read more at The effects of R-74 on Washington

The kindness of strangers

New York City Police Officer Larry DePrimo helped a homeless man, using his own money to buy the man a pair of all-weather boots and thermal socks. The picture below of his act of kindness has gone viral on Facebook.

Update December 4, 2012

The homeless man is once again barefoot. A sad commentary to which it is unnecessary to assign blame and which doesn't detract in any way from Officer DePrimo's actions. From the interviews with DePrimo, even knowing that I don't think he would regret what he did. Kindness is its own reward and the man is blessed for his.